I started Turkish lessons. Apparently, I have the most time on my hands and have been volunteered to learn Turkish for the family. I just want to say....thanks a lot guys. AND I do mean guys, because there are no other women in this house. Anyway, here is what it is like learning Turkish;
Imagine yourself with a swollen tongue trying to talk. That is what it is like speaking the Turkish language. I feel like I am constantly trying to speak tongue twisters. Too many times Turkish words are very long with many consonants placed next to each other which trip you up while speaking the word. What is up with that?!?!? Who created this language?!?!
In the beginning I struggled with this challenge. For example; Memnun Oldum, which means -nice to meet you. Who puts a "m" and a "n" right next to one another and think that people can enunciate each letter. It took me about a half an hour walking around the house saying the word over and over in order to speak it right without tripping over my tongue. Or tekrarlayin; pronounced ta crahr lahyeen, meaning repeat. Every letter is to be pronounced...easy for them to say. This has been the interesting part of learning the language; the enunciation.
Another interesting thing is that their words follow a situational context in order to say. For example; Gule Gule- means goodbye, but you can't say it if you are leaving. Gule Gule is a response you say to a person who said goodbye to you as they were leaving..... and you stay at your location. Hos cakalin; means goodbye, but is only said when you are the person leaving. AND after all have said goodbye you will finish your goodbye with a Gursurs which means see you later. Note there are more words for Good bye that have specific situational context to them.
It is the same thing with the word hello. There are many ways to say hello, but you have to think about the context and the situation that you are in prior to speaking the form of hello. There are hellos when answering the phone (Alo and Enfendim), hellos depending on the time of the day(iyi Aksamlar- good evening, iyi geceler- Good nigh) and hellos connected with your situation (Hos geldin- Welcome, Merhaba- hello). Turkish is all about the context.
Turkish has 29 letters in their Alphabet. Most vowels are pronounced differently than the English form. Several letters are also different. For example; the letter "c" is never a "K" sound. C is either a "j" or a "ch" sound, depending on if there is a squiggle line under the "c". Here is their alphabet; a, be, ce, çe, de, e, fe, ge, yumuşak ge, he, ı, i, je, ke, le, me, ne, o, ö, pe, re, se, şe, te, u, ü, ve, ye, ze.
As far as sentence structure; well that is also different. They speak their subject and object first, then the action. And instead of linking verbs or prepositions; you add the possessive, plural and such to the end of the action word used in the sentence. For example..... to say "I am" in the Turkish language you add a "yim" to the end of the word. To say, I am a student is Ben ogrenciyim- I student am. So, now adding to the end of the word makes the difficult word even harder to pronounce. You should hear me speak when I am learning new words and sentences, because it is hilarious.
Well, even though this is a challenge it is fun. I have met a couple of Brits, two Egyptians, a Filipino and a Korean. We are having a good time laughing at ourselves and learning a lot. It will take time for me to speak the language comfortably, but it is fun!
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Invitation for Tea
Our neighbors across the street have been very friendly. The man speaks broken English, his wife speaks very little English and the five year old son speaks no English. The neighbor told Reed that he was excited that Americans moved in to the house next to him. He talked about having us over for tea; saying that needs to practice his English more and wanted to hear about our transition.
Many weeks went by where our schedules did not match. But, finally we scheduled to have tea at his house at 830pm with his family. Here is how the day played out;
Reed and I knew that tea was not until late in the evening. We had just bought a charcoal grill and decided to test it out. We planned to grill hamburgers and hot dogs with the kids. Because it was a beautiful Saturday, we made the works; salad, chips, dip, hamburgers, and beer. YUM! Everyone ate till their hearts were content.
Time for Tea. We dressed the boys up in polo shirts. As stated in prior blogs, people in Turkey tend to dress up. We had a box of chocolates ready to take with us to the neighbors. It is Turkish tradition that when you are invited to a house, you bring a gift. We walked next door for our evening of conversation and Tea.
Introductions began with the husband speaking both Turkish and English. We noticed that his wife's family were also at that house. Apparently, his wife's family wanted to meet the Americans as well. They could not speak English. The kids ran off talking in broken English and using a form of charades to communicate with one another to play.
All the adults sat outside to visit. The weather is so beautiful in Turkey that during the summer months they eat and converse outside. So we sat down at the table and chairs. Next, his wife and her sister- in law started bringing out more and more food like a buffet style dinner. WHAT!?!? I thought we were coming over for tea?
Apparently, Turkish custom of Tea is that it includes dinner. The Turks like to eat later in the evening, around 8pm or later. They don't have dinner at 6pm like Americans. So if a Turkish person invites you over for tea, they really are inviting you over for dinner. We wish we would have known that prior to our arrival.
Now the wife and sister-in-law brought out many plates of food; three different pasta dishes, bread, and desserts. I knew that if I did not eat any of the food it would be an insult. So Reed and I, being full from our dinner, had to eat a second dinner. I had to taste everything to show them that I was thankful and grateful for the meal.
Needless to say, we ate way too much. BUT overall the evening went well. We had a great visit with the neighbors and enjoyed watching the kids, who don't speak each other's language, work through the language barriers to play common games like; hide and go seek and tag. We said our goodbyes around 11pm. Reed and I then rolled ourselves home. We tucked the kids into bed, took our tums and laid in bed commenting how miserably full we were from the two dinners.
We did enjoy our relaxing evening with the neighbors. BUT -NOTE TO SELF; when invited over for tea....don't eat dinner.
Many weeks went by where our schedules did not match. But, finally we scheduled to have tea at his house at 830pm with his family. Here is how the day played out;
Reed and I knew that tea was not until late in the evening. We had just bought a charcoal grill and decided to test it out. We planned to grill hamburgers and hot dogs with the kids. Because it was a beautiful Saturday, we made the works; salad, chips, dip, hamburgers, and beer. YUM! Everyone ate till their hearts were content.
Time for Tea. We dressed the boys up in polo shirts. As stated in prior blogs, people in Turkey tend to dress up. We had a box of chocolates ready to take with us to the neighbors. It is Turkish tradition that when you are invited to a house, you bring a gift. We walked next door for our evening of conversation and Tea.
Introductions began with the husband speaking both Turkish and English. We noticed that his wife's family were also at that house. Apparently, his wife's family wanted to meet the Americans as well. They could not speak English. The kids ran off talking in broken English and using a form of charades to communicate with one another to play.
All the adults sat outside to visit. The weather is so beautiful in Turkey that during the summer months they eat and converse outside. So we sat down at the table and chairs. Next, his wife and her sister- in law started bringing out more and more food like a buffet style dinner. WHAT!?!? I thought we were coming over for tea?
Apparently, Turkish custom of Tea is that it includes dinner. The Turks like to eat later in the evening, around 8pm or later. They don't have dinner at 6pm like Americans. So if a Turkish person invites you over for tea, they really are inviting you over for dinner. We wish we would have known that prior to our arrival.
Now the wife and sister-in-law brought out many plates of food; three different pasta dishes, bread, and desserts. I knew that if I did not eat any of the food it would be an insult. So Reed and I, being full from our dinner, had to eat a second dinner. I had to taste everything to show them that I was thankful and grateful for the meal.
Needless to say, we ate way too much. BUT overall the evening went well. We had a great visit with the neighbors and enjoyed watching the kids, who don't speak each other's language, work through the language barriers to play common games like; hide and go seek and tag. We said our goodbyes around 11pm. Reed and I then rolled ourselves home. We tucked the kids into bed, took our tums and laid in bed commenting how miserably full we were from the two dinners.
View of a Neighborhood
We did enjoy our relaxing evening with the neighbors. BUT -NOTE TO SELF; when invited over for tea....don't eat dinner.
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